Just because someone has a differing opinion, doesn't mean they
are wrong or evil or mean. I post my views on subjects, just like YOU
do. The difference between you and I is that I can back up my arguments
with FACTS and REASON. I don't have to hide behind invectives and mudslinging.
I don't have to hide behind lies and pathetic attempts at insults, because
I have REASONS for my opinions and I'm always willing to share those. Even
if our opinions are different, I can respect yours if you can back them
up with facts and reasons why you feel that way. When I ask you a question,
don't run away and hide behind name-calling. Have the guts to say "Gosh
I don't have a reason, maybe I should think on this." I have respect for
someone who can say that.
The board in question struck me as a friendly place for moms to
hang out and chit chat about anything that was on our minds. I was met
with open arms and a warm welcome. I soon realized that the board was not
full of sweet and kind people, as they would have you believe, it was full
of infantile-backstabbing-high school-mentality-
sycophants.
I suddenly found myself in the midst of
hypocrites
and their toadies, asskissers and their respective asses and
morons who have no life and nothing better to do than point fingers.
No it wasn't ALL of the ladies at that board, a few were real decent
human beings. They had valid ideas and concerns; they were able to backup
their opinions with facts or life experiences that led them to believe
the way they did. They were able to say, "I respect your views on this,
but I don't agree with you." Those few ladies know who they are; I don't
need to name names. Those of you who are pathetic little asskissers with
no lives, you know who you are too. If you have a twinge of "OH NO! Is
it ME she's talking about?!" then it's probably YOU I'm talking about.
If you're an asskisser, if you stab your friends in the back, if you rumor
and gossip around behind people's backs then YES I'm talking about YOU.
In an attempt to open the minds of these poor souls, I played Devil's
Advocate. It's my favorite role. I explained beforehand that I don't always
believe in what I'm writing when I play DA, I'm simply doing it so the
other side of the controversy has a voice, to open the mind to other possibilities.
So perhaps one or two people will say, "Hmmm, maybe she has a point."
But instead of listening and having a grown up conversation, these ladies
(and I use the term loosely) start rumors and gossip behind my back. Silly
mortals, you think I can't hear what you say? Mwahahaha! (Sorry God complex
there) These poor things just couldn't handle it. They had no idea what
to do with a stay home mom who actually has REAL thoughts. Who's brain
hasn't turned to mush. SURPRISE ladies, most stay home moms DON'T think
like you do!
LET THE GAMES BEGIN! No more Mrs. Nice-Gal. No more censoring
my own speech so I don't offend your delicate sensibilities. If you can't
handle a woman having a loud strong voice who's willing to debate until
the bitter end, then get the fuck off my site. I've had it up to my eyeballs
(lol my mom says that) with people who pretend to be all high and mighty.
They think they are better than everyone else. They their shit don't stink.
They think they are ABOVE all the other people on the planet and they believe
their way is the ONLY way. I'm tired of you close-minded individuals who
can't open your eyes even a tad to see that there might actually be another
answer.
So Sheila , get your head out of your ass and realize that other people have the right to have opinions. And you calling me "Cold" and attempting to insult my children and my parenting just proves my theory that you ARE ignorant and you ARE a moron. You're what is wrong with society in America. For everyone who wants to see what Sheila's big problem is, click her name or click here to be brought to our conversation. You'll see what I mean when I say these people can only try and insult my family and me because they don't have a reason, they don't HAVE a valid argument. When Sheila felt trapped with no valid arguments she lashed out and attempted to hurt me. Nice try.
While Sheila threw insult after insult at me, not a single person came to my defense (not like I need it anyway) not a single moderator did their job and said "Sheila it's our policy not to flame one another. Please refrain from name calling." Not a single so called "Friend" stepped forward to support me by saying "Everyone has a right to his or her opinion." I DID get a couple PMs from my pals saying what a joke Sheila is, how pathetic it is she can't come up with a good argument and how sad it is she has to resort to name calling like a third grader. Thanks DeeDee for being a REAL friend.
Meeager, you have got some serious issues to deal with. You came to ME with an apology because you THOUGHT I was being mean in a post. You THOUGHT I was attacking you and you realized later how wrong you were. YOU CAME TO ME and said you were sorry for judging before you knew me, and asked for my forgiveness. And I gave it. I gave you kudos for having the balls to come forward and apologize. You didn't HAVE to do it, but you showed gumption by stepping forward and saying "I'm sorry, I was wrong." Of course then you began trusting me with private information about yourself, coming to me for advise on a nearly daily basis. You complimented me on my ability to handle people and boggled at my knowledge on many subjects. I began to realize how messed up in the head you were when you asked me how to respond to a post by someone else.
For god's sake woman, just because someone doesn't AGREE with you, or doesn't blow smoke up your ass, doesn't mean they are ATTACKING YOU! The poor newbie who wrote the post in question was only answering YOUR request for help! Jesus Christ Meeager, you post a question on a forum and then get paranoid when people answer you. Get a grip, get a life and get some Prozac.
You confide in me about your mental issues and ask if I hate you because you're a nutcase. I assured you that the only way I'd stop being your friend is if you stabbed me in the back. Well, Meager you stabbed me in the back by going to a Moderator (and a poor one at that) about a post that hurt your feelings. The post wasn't even ABOUT you, you made a statement, I commented on it and you flipped out. For the thread please click here, it has not been edited so you can see for yourself what happens at that board. To make it short and sweet here, we'll just say Meeager has some major issues to deal with, but instead of coming to grips with that fact, she'd rather point her finger at innocent posts and cry to the mods saying "She hurt my feelings! I don't like her opinion! I don't like what she said so I'm going to act like a baby and report it to a mod instead of talking to the person in question… waaa waaa... my pussy hurts… waa waa…" Instead of admitting to herself she needs some psychological guidance she is going to point her finger at every post that rubs her the wrong way. She can't handle the stress of other women having views and ideas that don't match hers.
Deedee my dear friend, has been quite a trooper listening to me complain about how I'm being treated, how stupid people are and how irritating it is to have to deal with idiocy. She has stood by me through this stuff and patted me on the back and tried so hard to make it all right. DeeDee, you rock!
DeeDee posted something the other day about what the website meant to her. How it had made her feel to come to a place so kind and caring (she is relatively new to the boards) and that it's a nice change of pace (or something along those lines.) Two people responded to her saying yes indeed it was a nice friendly place to be. Then I posted. I said the same thing and then I mentioned how "every rose has its thorns though… and lately I've run into a lot of thorns. It's the kindness of the other people there that made me stay despite the thorns." The post GOT DELETED! DeeDee raised hell about it. Saying it was censorship and that there was nothing wrong with the post.
She got a reply from the mod I'll dub "Bitch From Hell" who also happens to be the one that publicly accused me of attacking another member with rude comments (see link ). This is what she wrote to DeeDee:
~~"Dee Dee - The thread was removed from the boards and placed in a holding
area of sorts until the owner (name removed for privacy) can take a look
at it. You are not being censored in any way. The moderators received a comment/concern
from other members about the thread and moving it until the owner can
review it is just a normal course of action. I want to go ahead and let
you know that it may be a few days because the owner is in the process
of moving. Thank you for understanding."~~
Excuse me Bitch From Hell, I'd like to point out what Censorship
means: "deleting parts of publications or correspondence
or theatrical performances" straight from dictionary.com thank you
very much. So as you see, it IS censorship. You have kept a post from
being viewed by anyone else because YOU think there is something wrong
with it. And let me guess whom the mystery person is who complained…
Meeager
, right? She was hurt by it… she thinks we were talking about her. Little
paranoid Meeager and her delusions. Well, if she has a guilty conscience
I can't stop her from thinking that way.
I'd also like to point out that you said, "The moderators received a comment/concern from other members"…. you slipped up Bitch on Wheels. You first imply the mods "received A comment/concern" but then say from "other MEMBERS". Which is it? Singular as in "A comment from A member" or plural as in "COMMENTS from other MEMBERS". Make up your mind before you try and blow smoke up DeeDee's ass.
The moderator in question has had several complaints against her…. Lol when I mentioned a problem with a mod to another friend of mine who already left the board… she GUESSED who it was! What does that tell you about this bitch?
So apparently if you're fragile and you can't handle a discussion with another adult (Even one YOU started!), you can go to this board and the moderators will follow you around, deleting ALL the posts that make you unhappy. Don't you know the world revolves around YOU?
So I say "farewell" to the board and all its asskissing freaks, all the wimpy whiny women who can't handle a real conversation. For those strong and intelligent women who have a mind of your own, you know where to find me for some good talks and intellectual discussions.