I know it's difficult to believe, but I too, get hate mail. Yes folks, people hate my ideas, they hate the fact I have freedom of speech and know how to use it! Not only do I get hate mail, but the members of Blysster.com ALSO get hate mail from the chicken shits who are too scared and weak to send it directly to me! Here I will share the best of the best, the cream of the crop. My Hate Mail page replies will be in Blue .

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Hate Mail sent to my friend Clarissa:

To: Clarissa
Sue Cakes "msmmom2u@yahoo.com" wrote:
 What has msm or any one there ever done to you?? I can't undersatand
 why you our siding with optycal, She is very ill, and i't sad that you
 can't see that How can you like some one who told a mother she doesn't
 care if her child dies if her kid eats pb around them, I'm sure you
won't answer this. Your a mom too so how can you act like you have
been acting? there is too much hate in the world now so why do you
 have to add more, you would think you would want a better world for
 your child,but you are making it worse spreading hate. Sad you are
 very sad.
~~~~Clarissa's response:
Well I'll tell you I don't like the turn that msm has taken. There are a
 bunch of backstabbing people on there. I am sticking up for Opty because
 she is  WONDERFUL. She is very open minded and I like that about her.
It reminds me of me.  I think  a lot of people shunned Opty because she
 is not Christian. I will not do that. I am not a hipocrit.  I agreed
 with everything she said about the pb deal. When time after time she was
 flamed and NOT one mod stepped in to say a damn thing. Then she posts a
 reply to DeeDee about what msm means and Opty's post got deleted that is
 CENSORSHIP. This is free world and freedom of speech is a Consitutional
 Right. Don't get me wrong there are  alot of nice ladies on msm too. But
 I am afraid that the bad out weights the good. I have been in contact
with Mia and have told her my opinion. I left msm far before this. I
 just did it quietly. If you will notice I have only posted a couple of
times in the last few months when at one time I was there everyday
Clarissa
~~~~Sue Cakes wrote:
 Opty is a WONDERFUL.?? Oh yes you are ill too, Optycal
is EVIL !!!!! (OPTY: Trying to flatter me now! Aww shucks!)not wonderful. Satan  has hold of her heart but
good and must have yours too, if you side with some one like her ,
the only reason no one stood up for optycal in pb thread is because
she said she didn't care if that kid died (OPTY: I invite everyone to go look at the posts and tell me where I said I hope the kid dies... go on.... find it), not in those words but
you know thats what she ment.(OPTY:I always say what I mean, never said I hope the kid dies, so I must not want her to die... silly woman has an addled brain methinks...)You just wait tick off optycal and
disagree with her just once and she will turn on you too (OPTY:For the record, Clarissa and I disagree all the time, but we have an understanding.... we can still be friends and appreciate the difference in opinions.)
~~~~Clarissa replies:
That is your opinion. And opinions vary. Judge not least ye
be judged.Isn't that what your christian religion teaches? Isn't it up
to God to to do the judging?  I think for a person of faith you need
to rethink your thoughts and fall to your knees and pray to God for
forgiveness for judging others. Judging people is his job, not yours, not mine, not ANYBODYS.
 Clarissa
(OPTY: I like how Clarissa turns the psycho-ho-bag's own religion on her.... Clarissa is VERY good at this because SHE is a Christian and is not afraid to point out when a "So-Called" Christian is going against God... way to go!)

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My favorite Hate Mail to date from the peanut butter freak herself… the woman who would destroy every peanut on the planet so her little darling can breathe freely, the woman who would take away an American staple just because her child is genetically inferior to mine. Her reasoning is, QUOTE:“What makes your child so much more special that she can eat pbj and mine can't?” END QUOTE Here is the email discussion we had once she read the site (Please note this is non-edited, exactly as she sent it to me):

From: dsabrown@cox-internet.com" ( Please note: She used her husband's email address NOT hers.)
To:  Blysster.com
Sent: Sunday, October 06, 2002 12:34 PM
Subject: Hi from Sheila
hi, just got thru reading all the things you have to say about me on your website.  WOW, Op, had no idea I was so important to you! Thanks for allowing me to see just how far under your skin I can get! LOL LOL I am loving it! Anytime I need some  put me to sleep reading from a sociopath, I will return to your site!  Thanks again!
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From: Blysster.com
To: darrell dsabrown@cox-internet.com
Sent: Sunday, October 06, 2002 5:45 PM
Subject: Re: Hi from Sheila

Well, I'm so glad you enjoyed my little rant. I am all about pleasing the public (Did ya catch the sarcasm by any chance? Seems you need things pointed out to you before you get it, and even when it’s handed to you and shoved in your face you don’t get it.) Don't be too flattered; you certainly aren’t the only one who'll get a rant about them.
 
You haven’t gotten under my skin don’t flatter yourself; it's more like I feel sorry for your daughter who has nobody to look up to but a woman who is ignorant and unwilling to look at other possibilities. In fact you can't even use your own email address, you have to pass things by your husband before you will speak. It's pretty sad really. So I think of it more as an amusement to see how much I got under YOUR skin…. Why else would you send me an email (and thanks by the way because now I have your email address AND IP address)? I was wondering how long before you got out of your depression (yes I read ALL about that too) and sent me an email TRYING to make yourself feel better.
 
You ARE important because you are the epitome of ignorance, the towering proof that it IS possible to live past adolescence with your eyes shut tight and hands clamped over your ears, looking like all three of the proverbial monkeys.

~~Anytime I need some  put me to sleep reading from a sociopath~~
Check your grammar.
http://www.dictionary.com/search?q=sociopath (OPTY:Aren't I thoughtful to privide a link to difficult words?)
 
Trust me, I am much more than a sociopath…. But I appreciate the compliment!
 
~~ I will return to your site~~
WONDERFUL! I welcome you anytime.
 
Instead of sending me an email with pitiful attempts at name-calling and insults I’d appreciate your insights on any of the points I brought up. But I can’t imagine you’d REALLY want this conversation to go on at all…. You obviously have your ideas firmly planted in your tiny little head and wont budge for a moment. If you’d like to discuss and talk in an adult manner, by all means continue to email me, I welcome the ammunition, I mean communication, but if you plan on just attempting to insult me and waste my time, don’t bother… it’s QUITE boring. Now if you came up with some REALLY good insults I might actually give your emails more than a few minutes thought.
 
Love and warm snuggles,
Blysster.com
 
PS please remember anything sent to Blysster.com or its employees becomes property of Blysster.com and may be used on future installments of “The Page Of Idiots” or any way Blysster.com sees fit. (OPTY: See the disclaimer? Same one that is on my front page of Blysster.com.)
 
From: darrell dsabrown@cox-internet.com (OPTY:Wife got scared I guess and can't answer for herself, she starts shit and hubby dearest jumps in to try and save her ass... isnt it sweet?)
To: Blysster.com
Sent: Sunday, October 06, 2002 6:43 PM
Subject: Re: Hi from Sheil
Optycal (sorry, I do not know your name),
If she hasn't gotten under your skin then why do you feel the need to post it on your site and say so many cruel things?  You are a bitter person and in need of some deep love and understanding.  I do not know what has happened in your life to make you have such a black heart but I can offer you an open ear if you would like to talk.  I am not upset at what you have said.   It is clear that you are in pain and that your life has not been a bed of roses.
 
My wife is her own person and can say whatever she wants.  I do not control her in any way.  We have a deep understanding and friendship that allows us to talk about anything and because we are best friends we do talk about everything.  Our marriage is based on faith, hope, love, and respect.  I will stand behind her 100% even if I do not agree.  I love my wife and children and I allow them to be their own persons.  I place my trust in God and have been truly blessed.  A person without God is an angry person searching for acceptance and love.  God accepts you for who you are and loves you, even if you cast him out.  He gave His son to die on the cross for our sins.  He loves you and wants to be apart of your life.  We can help you get to know Him. Once you have a relationship with God you will be complete.  Imagine all of the pain in your heart replaced with love...  That is the gift that only He can give.  What we can give is friendship. I am offering up a friendship to you.  You do not have to believe in all that I do or say nor do I expect you to, but if you open yourself up to a friendship I promise you a positive one.  I will not always preach to you.....  I will not condemn you.  But I will be here for you and will always have an open ear and an open heart. 
 
I am the Chief Information Officer for a large corp.  I have worked for IBM, Solectron, and Business Control Systems.  I have done everything from building a computer system to installing and configuring an entire network for IBM.  My skills allow me to be afraid of no one in a technology savvy world. And I assure you that any "attempt" of foul play will be met with strict and prompt retaliation on a legal level.   Part of my job is network security.  I have shut hackers down and handed their systems over to the authorities.  I also co-wrote the security policy and procedures manual for IBM, and Solectron as well as authored one for my current employer.  I am responsible for LAN's and WAN's all over the South Central and Eastern states as well as every resort city in Mexico.  I have the professional skills to maintain and secure over 62 networks housing over 25,000 client systems.  So threats of one HAVING??? my IP address do not scare me in the least.
 
P.S.  you do not have my IP address, you may have the routing address to the DNS servers that transport and filter data via email.  If in fact you have that.  I assure you that you do not have a TCP/IP, DNS server, or any other network addresses of mine.  I am behind a Cisco PIX 506 firewall and have all unused ports tightly closed.  I am not trying to be above your intelligence in the IT field, just letting you know that I have a vast knowledge of this as well.
 
I do not comply with you using this material (email) for your personal site.  I am sending this and trusting you will not post this.   This email is person to person.  I am not speaking to anyone else, just you and do not want this or any further emails from this address published on your website.  With that being said I will keep an electronic copy of this and will also forward this to an alternate email and save as proof of my wish to privacy.  If my (this email address) privacy is invaded I will take the appropriate legal steps. (OPTY:I am highly amused by this, once his emails have been sent to me, they become my property... Blysster.com is ALSO my property, I have the right to do anything I wish with that property.... aint life grand? If his wife chose to ignore the warning on the front page of Blysster, that's not my fault.)
 
Darrell Brown

MY REPLY:
From: Blysster.com
To: darrell
Sent: Sunday, October 06, 2002 10:29 PM
Subject: Re: Hi from Sheila
 
~~Optycal (sorry, I do not know your name),~~
Such is the joy of the net. I am to be anonymous until such date as I choose to reveal myself. There is no need for such an action at this time. Thanks though. Opty or Optycal is fine.
 
~~If she hasn't gotten under your skin then why do you feel the need to post it on your site and say so many cruel things~~
Because her IGNORANCE has gotten under my skin. Ignorance in any form disturbs me. She stirred up trouble where no trouble was wanted. She started a war with me over a discussion that didn’t include her pre-school aged child. It was about SCHOOLS banning Peanut butter. Instead of asking me questions that had weight and substance she lashed out at a stranger who was posting her own views on the subject. Automatically I am the bad guy because I believe the rest of the school has the right to have PB and it should be the parents of the affected child who need to change and adapt. Oh and, I think it's funny to see the reactions of people who don't have their heads screwed on tight enough.
 
~~You are a bitter person~~
Nope. I’m a realistic person. And I was incredibly angry at the response I got from your dear wife. She was attempting to be insulting and rude and not backing up her statements with anything but raw emotion. She lashed out and not a single Mod. Came and told her to back off. Not a single person told her to cool her jets. She refused to answer my questions, and when I answered hers, I got nothing but grief from her. No, it’s not bitterness, it’s extreme giggles at the ignorance and stupidity apparently running rampant in this world.
 
~~ and in need of some deep love and understanding~~
Nope, got loads of that from family and friends who all support my views and opinions. They don’t have to agree, but they do support and appreciate my views. My husband loves me more than I could ever expect anyone to love another person, he happens to agree with me on my views with the PB issue. My children both love and adore me; they look up to me for guidance on tough subjects and appreciate my view on things. My friends come to me for advice because I have an open mind and am able to play the Devil’s Advocate so well, they are able to then see all sides of the issue. But thanks for playing “Psychotherapist.”
 
~~ I do not know what has happened in your life to make you have such a black heart~~
I don’t have a black heart. Tell me why you think I do? Is it because I have an opinion that Is different from yours? Is it because I think you have a false GOD?
 
~~ but I can offer you an open ear if you would like to talk~~
Exactly why would I come to YOU? I have a huge support base to fall back on should the need ever arise. Not to mention I don’t need my brain clouded with religious slop… thanks for playing. You know of course if you’re ever curious about my life you can read my rants page =D
 
~~ I am not upset at what you have said~~
That’s silly, of course you are.
 
~~ It is clear that you are in pain and that your life has not been a bed of roses~~
Actually I am elated. I am in heaven. My life has never been better! You really should take classes in psychology before you try and analyze people. Just because I don’t agree with you, and I say some nasty things doesn’t mean I am in pain. It means I am ANNOYED with ignorance… again, thanks for playing.
 
~~ I do not control her in any way~~
That’s why you keep replying for her. Perhaps you’d like my husband to reply now too? Then the men-folk can hash it out. Wouldn’t you be thrilled to know my hubby agrees with me? She posted many times about how depressed she was and how she needs all this help. Gosh, maybe you should go check on her and what she has been writing on the other site.
 
~~ I place my trust in God and have been truly blessed~~
Good for you. It’s good to have faith. I have faith in science and my own MIND.
 
~~ A person without God is an angry person searching for acceptance and love.~~
No, a person without YOUR God is a person with a free mind and open heart. I don’t need YOUR god. I have my own thank you very much. It’s nice of you to offer though. You can find a lost soul to preach to though, I don’t respond well to those things. Oh yes and your God who has caused the death of millions throughout history, that’s not the kind of god I need in my life.
 
~~ God accepts you for who you are and loves you, even if you cast him out~~
Your God does not exist.
 
~~ He gave His son to die on the cross for our sins~~
Nifty. Sounds pretty dumb to me. Besides the fact I wasn’t alive way back then anyway… so I’ll take the blame for my own sins thank you very much.
 
~~ He loves you and wants to be apart of your life~~
Sounds like a stalker.
 
~~ We can help you get to know Him~~
And all I have to do is send you all my money, shave my head, wear a sheet and hand out flowers at the airport right? I think not. I look bad with no hair.
 
~~ Once you have a relationship with God you will be complete~~
I AM complete. I have more than I could ever need or want. I have the dream-life many women crave.
 
~~ Imagine all of the pain in your heart replaced with love~~
There is no pain in my heart you silly people. There is only love for my family and laughter at ignorance.
 
~~ I am offering up a friendship to you~~
No thanks. I don’t like to be friends with judgmental hypocrites who can’t have an adult conversation without throwing lame threats and insults. Go look around the net for lonely housewives who have no friends.       
 
~~ I will not always preach to you~~
That should have said, “I Will NEVER preach to you”…. I just can’t stand preachy types, even if you don’t “Always preach” to me. I can’t stand preachyness.
 
~~ I will be here for you and will always have an open ear~~
That’s not true and you two have already proven that by the way you acted on the message board. Bad form… you can’t take it back now.
 
~~ I assure you that any "attempt" of foul play will be met with strict and prompt retaliation on a legal level~~
Power trip much? Show me when I ever threatened anything to you. I made a simple statement. I have your ip address and your email address. My website logs EVERY user who looks at it. It’s not hard to trace AS YOU KNOW. By informing your wife I have the IP address and the email address she used, I was reminding HER not to try anything illegal. If I’m going to threaten you, I’ll come right out and do it. Trust me though; any threats will be well within the law and not silly little hacker tricks. I’m no hacker, I think it’s wrong and sneaky; I am not a party to that sort of behavior. What kind of mother would I be if I did illegal things and then turn around and scolded my children for those things?
 
 Remember… SHE contacted ME first. I’m so glad you know all about that stuff because you can remind her to be more careful in the future and not to sound threatening. I wouldn’t put it past either of you to try and silence the right to free speech on my site, and since you so kindly have given me that information on your background I now know you DO pose a threat of hacker activity and I can also inform the authorities HERE if anything ever happens to Blysster.com. I assure you, you will be the first suspect on my list.
 
~~ you do not have my IP address, you may have the routing address to the DNS servers that transport and filter data via email.~~
I don’t feel like having “techie talk” with you. You have YOUR ways I have MINE. Lets leave it at that. I’m not all big on techie talk, never have been. I don’t have an IP address FROM your email; I have it from my site, thanks a bunch. I think it’s pretty funny how you offer a friendship and then in the very next paragraph you threaten me…. Lol you guys are a kick in the pants!
 
I’m also not going to point out ALL the flaws in your email because it’s just not fun anymore. As I said before however, you’re more than welcome to continue the debate with me… but I prefer to speak directly with your wife, not YOU. I don’t have a problem with you, but you like to butt in a lot. Your wife started this she should finish it.
 
A nice finish would be “I’m really sorry I threw insults at you, I really did do the wrong thing. I still don’t agree with you and your views on peanut butter, but I respect your right to have your own free thoughts. I ask kindly that you remove the peanut butter rant and that you accept my apology.” Then I’d reply something like this “Sure thing Sheila! That’s all I was waiting for. I’ll do what you ask, it’s takes about 24 – 48 hours for my silly ISP to catch up with web page updates, but I’ll do what you asked because you’re so polite about it! Have a good day!” See how nice and civil this could all have been with a SINCERE apology… not like that forced one on the message board.
 
Also I’d like to share a tidbit…. At my kids’ school they have implemented a little security feature for those who are allergic to peanut oils. ON popcorn day there were a couple complaints of the oil making kids sick (because they ate the popcorn, naughty kids should have known better but their parents didn’t do their job) the school decided to allow the families of allergic kids to bring their own popcorn on those days and let everyone else still have theirs. See how nice it is when people TALK and LISTEN to one another and can come to a viable solution without name-calling and threats?
 
Good day to you… and please in the future, no threats in the emails, it just irritates me to no end. I don’t threaten you, you don’t threaten me. Enjoy your stay at Blysster.com, my most popular place is the game page, perhaps you can find a fun game to play!


 Sheila Wrote:
dsabrown@cox-internet.com
He does not answer FOR me, he answers in conjunction with me. I happened to be at work at the time your e-mail came in.  Our email address is for our family, not just one of us. I do not wish to know your name, as I have no intention of getting any closer to you as a person. Mt dh felt the need to witness Christ to you, and let you know he would be here if you had any questions in that regard. You have made it plain that you do not believe in God, and that is fine. you are so big on asking, why, because I do not have the same opinion as you? So I say back to you, because I do not agree with you I need to be called all kinds of names on your site? Some of them are very inventive, thanks for the lesson on what all your education has taught you. (after all, my air head had plenty of empty room that needed substance)

I was incredibly angry at your responses as well, seeing as how I was discussing a life threatening ailment to my child. And by the way, your comment on your site that I am still posting to the thread? You bet, because I wish to educate others. No, I was not going to continue the flaming or ranting at you, but that does not mean I will shut myself off from those who are looking for info on the subject.  nope, not the issue on God, that is your decision alone to make. More the things that you had to say on your site, the fact that you had to be so incredibly ugly in what you said. Not that your views are diff than mine. Just the filth and hatred that I feel emanating from your posts. (oops, guess that is just your hatred of my stupidity running rampant) I get it alright, when it is in my face, and even your subtle little daggers . (OPTY:I don't have subtle daggers... have any of you seen subtle daggers? I prefer huge butcher knives thrown directly at the forhead)
 
 And it was Dee Dee who gave you that wonderful name to call me? Here is an interesting tidbit on DeeDee's take on the pb thread, copied to your from the pm area of MSM: (OPTY:here she uses a person to person conversation and posts it, the very thing her husband threatened me for doing I removed it because it has no bearing on the email, and Deedee has nothing to do with this.)
 As he already explained we are very close, and seeing as how our response to the thread was in relation to OUR daughter, he has opinions on the matter. Are you threatened by men? Is that why it rattles your cage to correspond with him? (oops, more psychological analysis there huh? Guess I am just hopeless) As for my depression, yep, not embarrassed to say I have struggled with that most of my life. With all of your education I am sure you know how it is a chemical imbalance for some? (dripping sarcasm) He has read my poetry, and knows all about what goes on with me daily. And you know, even as you say, my "needing all this help" I sure would never allow my children to be put in a potentially harmful environment. Are you SURE your children trust you? Gosh, if they have any memories of that time maybe you should go check on them??,
 am sure it is alot more convenient for you to have a God that condones your hateful talk on your site?  And what are your replies if not judgmental, insulting, and full of vile? (OPTY:Thats what Blysster.com is all about you stupid bitch, don't you read?)
well, of I did, after reading all the glowing things you had to say about me! And to infer I would try anything illegal against you? I suppose you think you are the ONLY one that teaches their children right from wrong and is an example to them?  in what why was I threatening you in what I sent?
 he knew as he was typing it what your response to a friendship would be.... but he is a strong enough person to attempt it anyhow. That is a statement to our ability to recognize where our emotions have gotten the best of us and we have not done or said the right things to you....  and your hateful Reponses do nothing to instill confidence in you as a law abiding person
  I guess your wonder woman abilities at observation of posts was turned off that night? Cause if you had paid attention you would have seen that he signed his name to more than one post on the pb thread. so YEAH, you do also seem to have a problem with him.
It was a sincere apology on the boards..... I was sorry to you and everyone else. It is too bad that once the moderators DID step in, you could not recognize a sincere apology. For one insane moment I wanted to believe we could come to an amends.   Because of ugly things that you have said I no longer feel you deserve an apology.  You make biting remarks, and hide behind "I just have different opinions than you"  You seem to think that makes anything insulting you say ok.  Oh poor misunderstood Optycal, it is not that she is a hateful person, just that the rest of the world are morons. (OPTY:MY GOD! She finally got it! HOLY HELL!) If you fail to see where I would have found many of your responses hurtful on a personal level as a mother, than I guess too bad is all I can say.  But judging from the responses that flooded my email with  pm msgs from other members, I think it is fair to say many thought you WERE flaming against me. Perhaps not name calling in the beginning, but knowing what you were saying was flaming on a whole other level. (OPTY:You'd think PBFreak would have figured out that I come right out and say things, I don't beat around the bush.)
Well, it is late and I am already asking myself, WHY have I bothered sending you an e-mail?(OPTY:Because you are calling out for help, your god has forsaken you... cursed you with an abnormal child and now you are calling to me OPTYCAL THE GRAND, ruler of all that is BLYSSTER, to save you from your secret hell.... either that or you're just a glutton for punishment...) After reading your site I felt that some response was necessary. But ultimately, what you say about me does not make it so. So what does any of it matter? Good day to you too.

I replied to them, but alas... nothing in response... I'm saddened it had to end.... *sigh*

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Email from the owner of the site that started all this hub-bub. I removed her email address , I told her I would not post it,  See how nice I am?

Optycal,

I just got hooked back up to the internet yesterday after our move, and as you can imagine, I'm shocked to see what's gone on.  I spent some time on your web site this morning, and I read your "rants," as you call them.  We've all read them, in fact. (OPTY: YAY! More hits for me! I think this was supposed to scare me... lol)

I saw how you copied and pasted information from MSM and how you totally berated some of our members. (OPTY: Only the ones who shit in my cheerios.)

You and I had gotten along well, in my opinion.  I have tried very hard to manage all these emotions and opinions on my boards that have resulted from your "Devil's Advocate" position.  I realize as well as anyone that there are folks out there in the world who consider themselves high and mighty and feel that their opinions are more important than others.  In fact, I saw a new side of you on your site today. (OPTY: Blysster is a work of art! I'm not high and mighty, I'm just right!)

I have members leaving, and I have moderators bowing out.....all because of your aggression on my boards.(OPTY: No they leave because they are weak, they leave because they have no backbone to stand up for their opinions and when someone challenges or questions them, they back down and run with their tails between their legs. They are weak and scared and pathetic.)  Your web site is shocking, which I'm sure is your intent. (OPTY: Absolutely!) I am not sure why you targeted MSM (I targeted the people on your site who were hypocrits, backstabbers and morons.), which has provided a lot of people with a peaceful, friendly place to share some some levity (which you very condescendingly sneer at on your site).  I started MSM because I recognized that we all need our opinions and feelings affirmed, and we all need a safe place to share.(OPTY: She forgets to mention that you can only share your thoughst and feelings if they agree with the thoughts and feelings of the rest of the members. You are not allowed to have a differing opinion, just ask Clarissa, DeeDee and many others who left LONG before I ever did.)  You have ruined that for several folks now.(OPTY:They ruined it for themselves, way to pass the buck though!)

I am not a fan of censorship. (OPTY:Except when it's censoring me and my posts about what your site meant to me.) I believe that we all have a right to our opinions.  HOWEVER, when they become hurtful, HATEful,(OPTY: This only applies to me.... when other people were flat out MEAN to me, nobody said a damn thing to them.) and when someone throws the term "God complex" around, the hairs on the back on my neck stand up. (OPTY:EEEWWWW!) You have attacked my friends on your web site.  Like me, you have a right to place on your site whatever you want.  But I will no longer tolerate your hatred on my site.

Optycal, in order to protect my boards from your disdain any further, I will be banning you.  Perhaps it's already part of your plan to stay away, and maybe I just haven't picked up on that yet for lack of time during my move.  (What a dumbass... I was already OFF the boards. She had quite a powertrip over this whole thing too, she waited until I had already left and THEN banned my IP. See.... I have ways around that and visit her site now and then BECAUSE I CAN and I'm a brat.... muwahahaha...)

I would also like to ask that you no longer copy posts from my site to yours. 

Mia

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